If my life isn’t one thing, that would be boring! I was so wrapped up in all of the previous events as well as the upcoming events and changes that I didn’t think of what “Fun Friday” would be so I’m just going to use it to update everyone on the business that is my (our) life (lives).
First and foremost, we were blessed with a nephew last weekend. He is just the most adorable little man that I have ever seen. He has a head full of hair and was pretty active most of the time that we were there! I can’t wait to watch this little guy as he grows. (Well, I guess he’s not all that ‘little’) He’s for sure going to be a heart breaker.
Our morning routine is soon to change. We got word a couple of days ago that Shane has been moved to a different route! This is exciting (for me for sure) because instead of driving around 1,000 miles per week, he will be down to about 500. Not only does it cut down on miles, it cuts down on the amount of customers (and all the hassle bologna that comes with them) and the amount of stops he has to make. However, it is a more stable paycheck. The only downfall that I’ve found so far is that he will have to start earlier in the day (4:00-4:30AM start time) but he will be done by my lunch hour. So we are moving “morning coffee” to “midday lunch”.
Tonight, we are hosting our church “group” tonight. Which tonight is just going to be Pastor, Marnie and ourselves. We decided to cook supper for them and just talk about life and struggles and just take it easy with them for an evening. I feel that since we’ve missed the last few weeks (busy, Good Friday, and group was cancelled the week before), we needed this time with our Pastor and his lovely wife!
M has been selected to compete in a spelling bee tomorrow. Not sure how to feel about this. As you’ve seen in previous postings, we struggle with her and taking responsibility, maintaining concentration, staying disciplined, and being accountable. When she first showed us the letter, it was implied that she was a back up contestant (in case of an illness or something of that matter) so we didn’t really have much of a plan to go. However, she informed us two days ago that she is now a contestant. (If these two could ever tell us vital information like this in a timely manner it would be a miracle).
The reason I’m struggling with how to feel about this is that they go back to their mom’s this afternoon. That mean’s that their mom is the one responsible getting them to and from events like this. Even though we are now going, it’s part of the custody agreement between her and Shane that she takes responsibility for them when they are there (with the exception of church, we bring them there). However, as of 6:45 this morning, M had not informed her mom that she needed to be at the school (which is 45 minutes away) at about 8 tomorrow morning. So we (again) talked about responsibility. She has a phone for a reason and that is one of those reasons.
I feel that things like these, while they are good programs, should be decided on by the parents. They should have the say if the child goes or not. Not saying that I/we would hold M back, BUT if she can’t take responsibility for the little things in life, I don’t think she could handle something this big. (And she hasn’t. We’ve had to force information out of her.) This also goes for her ‘practicing’. They were advised to study a list of words and practice with parents. She FINALLY practiced for the first time the same evening she told us she was an actual contender. (3 days before hand… 3 DAYS!) Any who, just one of those irritating things that Shane and I have been battling with for the last few months and I feel that she didn’t really need another thing added onto her plate.
Shane and I are also taking a date night tomorrow night! It’s been a while since we had an “actual date” where we get out-of-town and just spend some time the two of us. We are going to travel over to SD and go see a movie and maybe do dinner. I am making it a personal goal to not even touch my phone for the entire afternoon/evening with the exception of the kids (of course). My husband deserves quality time with me and he can’t get that if my nose is stuck in my phone talking to people who aren’t him.
Shane is giving his faith testimony in church on Sunday. I’m really excited to hear it! He hasn’t told me a whole lot about it but I’ve been around as he’s been praying on it, jotting down key points here and there and getting what I call “happy bounces” when he talks or thinks about it. He’s been finding scripture that relates to different key times in his life (i.e. the kids, the divorce, us, etc) and it’s been really fun watching him experience this. Come next week, I may link it on my Thursday post so keep an eye out for it!
I feel like our life is forever on the go. We don’t take much time to ourselves. We get “shamed” (in a fun way of course!) because we are newlyweds who act like we’ve been married forever. We would rather be spending our time being productive, socializing, doing things with/for the church, running with the kids, or just plain running.
We planned to take some time on Sunday just to sit and veg to the TV but I highly doubt that we will be able to sit still. After all, we have a garden to plant, a garage sale to prepare for, a house to deep clean, a yard to fix and two moose (dogs) to let out to run.
There’s my life in a nutshell. This is why my posts are so scattered and never consistent with the times they are posted.